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Meeting What’s Coming

The heroic literature begins with a hard premise: much of what happens to you is not yours to decide. And a fierce conclusion from it — that the manner of the meeting is.


Fate · Stance  ·  ~7 min read

Fate goes ever as it must.Beowulf, trans. Seamus Heaney

§ 01The Weave You Did Not Choose

Starting with what this material actually is

Before anything else, what these twelve essays are working from, because it governs every claim in them.

The Norse and Germanic heroic material reaches us almost entirely through texts written down in Christian societies, centuries after the pagan world they depict. The Poetic Edda survives in a thirteenth-century Icelandic manuscript. Snorri Sturluson, who gave us the most systematic account of Norse myth, was a thirteenth-century Christian chieftain writing a handbook for poets, and scholars have argued for two hundred years about how much order he imposed on material that may not have had it. The sagas were composed two or three centuries after the events they narrate.

So this is literature about a past, not a record of a faith. When I say “the heroes believed,” I mean the texts portray them as believing, which is a considerably smaller claim.

What those texts portray is a world in which fate is set and the reckoning is coming, and in which the only thing at issue is the manner of the meeting.

§ 02One Word, and a Correction About It

Which I would rather make early

Wyrd is the word usually reached for here, and it is Old English rather than Old Norse — the Norse term is urðr. They are cognate and they are not the same word in the same literature, and the modern habit of using wyrd for the whole northern world is a blurring worth not repeating.

The familiar picture — three Norns at the roots of the world-tree, spinning the threads of every life — is also less securely attested than its popularity suggests, and some of the weaving imagery may owe as much to the classical Fates as to anything native.

What survives the caution is the working idea, which appears throughout the literature without needing the machinery: the outcome is not up for negotiation, the day is set, and a person’s whole scope is how they stand when it arrives.

§ 03Two Ways of Meeting It

And the research that describes the difference

There is a body of work on what happens physiologically when a person faces a demanding, uncertain situation. The challenge-and-threat framework distinguishes two patterns: one in which a person appraises themselves as having the resources to meet what is coming, and one in which they do not, with measurably different cardiovascular signatures.4

The framework has reasonable support and the usual caveats: the physiological markers are noisy, the appraisal measures are self-report, and the effect on actual performance is more modest than the framework’s popular versions imply.

What it gives me is not proof of anything the sagas say. It is a vocabulary for something the literature is already describing: that two people can face the same unmovable thing and be doing something different with it, and that the difference is partly in how the demand and the resources are being sized.

Two stances, one weave
Fig.01 · The situation is identical in both rows
Nothing about the coming thing changes. What differs is the sizing — of the demand, and of what you have to meet it with.
What is woven
the field, the conditions, the draw, the body you have · not yours
→
Shrinking
the demand outsizes the resources · energy goes to bracing
→
Forward
the demand is met with what you have · the one freedom left
Set your feet. Meet the day.
Framework: wyrd and urðr · challenge and threat appraisal

§ 04Who This Is For, and Who It Isn’t

The limit, and it is a real one

The forward stance is excellent advice for a person facing a hard thing they have chosen, and it can be cruel advice for a person facing a hard thing that has been done to them.

“Meet it head-on” said to someone in poverty, or illness, or a situation someone else is maintaining, quietly relocates a structural problem into their posture. The heroic literature is not much help here, because it was composed by and about people with standing — chieftains, landholders, warriors — in a society that also contained thralls, who appear in the sagas mostly as property and whose manner of meeting their fate nobody recorded.

There is also a specific failure mode: the forward stance used to refuse a real assessment. Squaring up to something you should be walking away from is not courage, and the literature, which is full of men who died in avoidable feuds over insults, is better evidence for this than against it.

What I keep is narrow. Where something genuinely cannot be changed and is genuinely coming, there is a difference between meeting it and bracing against it, and the difference is partly yours.

Note — whose fate was recorded

This literature was composed by and about people with standing.

The same society held thralls, who appear mostly as property and whose manner of meeting their fate nobody wrote down. “Meet it head-on” said to someone whose situation is being maintained by somebody else relocates a structural problem into their posture.

§ 05Doing It

Name the woven; then stand

The stance is built on an honest inventory rather than on bravado, which is the part the popular version drops.

01
Name what is actually not yours honestly, in writing
The conditions, the field, the body you have today. The forward stance rests on this being accurate, not on it being large.
02
Then name what is the smaller list
Preparation, attention, whether you hold. This is the list the stance is actually about.
03
Check you are not just refusing to leave before squaring up
Standing to meet something you should walk away from is the failure mode, and it killed a lot of saga characters.
04
Prepare fully it is not fatalism
The literature has its heroes arm carefully before the fight they expect to lose. Accepting the weave never meant declining to sharpen anything.
05
Notice your default under a real demand
Most people have one and have never named it. Naming it is most of what makes it adjustable.

§ 06Sources

These essays draw on Old Norse and Old English literature — the Poetic Edda, Snorri Sturluson’s Prose Edda, the Icelandic sagas, and Beowulf — all of which were written down in Christian societies long after the pagan world they describe. Eddic and saga passages follow the translations named below; where a term or picture is contested, the essay says so rather than the list. Modern research is cited by author and publication.

  1. The Hávamál (“Words of the High One”) — from the Poetic Edda. Trans. Carolyne Larrington; Jackson Crawford. The northern wisdom of fate, courage, and the enduring deed.
  2. The Icelandic Sagas — esp. Njál's Saga and Egil's Saga. Trans. in the Penguin Classics editions. Fate met head-on, and the scorn for the one who shrinks.
  3. Bauschatz, P. — The Well and the Tree: World and Time in Early Germanic Culture (1982). Wyrd and the woven world.
  4. Blascovich, J. & Mendes, W. — challenge and threat states, in Handbook of Approach and Avoidance Motivation (2008). The two physiologies of meeting a demand.
  5. Elliot, A. J. — approach and avoidance motivation, Motivation and Emotion 30 (2006). Moving toward vs. shrinking from the challenge.
  6. Rate, C. & Sternberg, R. — the psychology of courage, Journal of Positive Psychology (2007). Voluntary action toward a goal despite fear.
  7. Hayes, S. et al. — acceptance and commitment, Behaviour Research and Therapy 44 (2006). Accepting the uncontrollable, then moving toward it.
  8. Carleton, R. N. — intolerance of uncertainty, Journal of Anxiety Disorders (2016). The modern shrinking from the uncontrollable, measured.
§   T H E   T A K E A W A Y

The literature’s premise is that the reckoning is coming and the outcome is not up for negotiation — and that the manner of the meeting is the one thing left.

That is a good stance toward a chosen hard thing and a cruel one offered to someone whose situation is being maintained by somebody else. And it was recorded by people with standing, about people with standing.

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