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Trying Not to Try

Wu wei is usually translated non-doing, and the translation has misled English readers for a century. Not passivity — action with the fight taken out of it. And the one thing that reliably prevents it is trying to produce it.


Philosophy · Performance  ·  ~7 min read

The Way never acts, yet nothing is left undone.Tao Te Ching 37, in the usual renderings

§ 01Not the Absence of Action

Take the term apart gently

Wei is doing in a particular sense — contrived, effortful, working against the grain. Wu negates it. So wu wei is not the absence of action but the absence of the forcing inside it.

The people described this way in the old texts are conspicuously busy. They are cooks and swimmers and craftsmen, in the middle of demanding work. What is missing is not activity. It is the internal struggle.

Everyone has some evidence for this. The best hour of work you have had, the conversation that went right, the thing you did well without narrating it — there was skill and there was effort, and there was no fight.

§ 02The Paradox That Makes It Hard to Write About

Commanding it is the one thing that prevents it

This is the central difficulty, and it is structural rather than mystical.

You cannot instruct yourself into unselfconscious action, because the instructing is a form of self-consciousness. The effort to be effortless is still effort, pointed at yourself, and it reliably produces the opposite.

The sinologist Edward Slingerland wrote a whole book on exactly this bind — his title is the one I borrowed — and his account is that the early Chinese thinkers were not confused about it; they disagreed with each other about how to get around it, which is a more interesting situation than a single doctrine.3

The research adjacent to this is the flow literature, which describes the state from inside: absorbed attention, the vanished self-monitor, action and awareness merged.4 It is worth saying that this is a descriptive research programme built substantially on self-report, and that describing a state well is not the same as knowing how to produce one. What it does confirm is that the state exists and is recognizable across very different activities.

Two roads, and one dead end
Fig.01 · What can actually be prepared
The third road is the one everything is sold on, and it is the one that does not go anywhere.
Absorption
the skill bought honestly · attended practice · long and boring
→
Subtraction
the grip loosened at the moment · one thing to attend to · nothing checked
→
Commanding it
“be effortless now” · the one ingredient that prevents it
Prepare the conditions. Then do not inspect them.
Framework: wu wei in the Laozi and Zhuangzi · Slingerland on the paradox · flow research

§ 03The Optimization Trap

An industry built on the road that does not go anywhere

Look at the shelf the culture keeps for its own restlessness. Systems for forcing focus. Protocols for forcing rest. Meditation apps with streaks and notifications — calm, gamified; presence, scored.

Each product identifies something real and then sells the one approach that cannot deliver it: commanding a state directly, on subscription. There is a documented version of this in sleep, where people chasing a good sleep score sleep worse, which clinicians have named orthosomnia — a small case series rather than an epidemiological finding, but a clean illustration.7

I do not think anyone designed this cynically. It is just that conditions are hard to sell and instructions are easy.

§ 04Where This Gets Used Badly

Two failures, one of them common

The first is skipping the preparation. Every description of this state in the old texts belongs to someone with an enormous amount of practice behind them. Handed to a beginner as “stop trying so hard,” it produces a half-learned thing done badly, plus confusion about why the magic did not arrive.

The second is that effortlessness has become an aesthetic, and the aesthetic rewards concealing effort rather than removing the fight from it. Those are opposite things. The first is a performance for other people; the second is a change in what is happening inside the work.

And a smaller caution: this idea has been used to dismiss ordinary hard work as unenlightened striving. The texts do not support that. The cook in the famous story has been carving oxen for nineteen years.

Note — the preparation is not optional

Every person described this way in the texts has decades behind them.

“Stop trying so hard” is not the teaching. The teaching is that the fight can come out of the work once the work is genuinely yours — and that the fight coming out is not something you can do on purpose.

§ 05Doing It

Conditions, then no inspection

Since the state cannot be produced directly, everything below is about the two roads that lead near it — and one discipline for when it shows up.

01
Sort your hours by road learning, or doing
Absorption in one, subtraction in the other. Most trouble is running the wrong one: checking during the doing, coasting during the learning.
02
Set the grip down in one sentence before it starts
Said out loud, once. “The work is in.” It functions as a handover, which is all it needs to do.
03
Give attention one place to rest not nothing
An unoccupied mind under pressure finds something worse. Choose the place in advance.
04
Never greet the state the trained non-response
Noticing that it is going well is how it stops. Do not congratulate it mid-flight.
05
Map the door afterward not during
What the conditions were. This is the only useful record, and it can only be made later.

§ 06Sources

This list mixes primary texts, translations, scholarship and modern trade books, and the entries vary in how precisely they can be located. Quotations from the discourses follow Bhikkhu Sujato’s translations, freely available at SuttaCentral, cited by the standard sutta reference. Where a phrase is traditional and circulates in several renderings I say so rather than inventing a citation, and anything marked as a paraphrase is my own wording.

  1. Lao Tzu — Tao Te Ching, esp. 2, 24, 29, 37, 48, 63. The non-doing that leaves nothing undone.
  2. Chuang Tzu — The Complete Works (Burton Watson, trans.); The Way of Chuang Tzu (Thomas Merton, 1965). The archer, the craftsmen, the smile.
  3. Slingerland, E. — Trying Not to Try: The Art and Science of Spontaneity (2014). Wu wei brought fully into the laboratory conversation — and the two roads mapped.
  4. Csikszentmihalyi, M. — Flow (1990). The state from the inside — with the Taoist craftsmen cited as its oldest cases.
  5. Dietrich, A. — transient hypofrontality, Consciousness and Cognition 12 (2003). The biology of “it did itself.”
  6. Baltzell, A. (ed.) — Mindfulness and Performance (2016). The grasp, the release, and the performer between them.
  7. Baron, K. G. et al. — “Orthosomnia,” Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine 13(2) (2017). Sleep worsened by the optimizing of it.
  8. Watts, A. — Tao: The Watercourse Way (1975). The door that opens outward, in Western prose.
§   T H E   T A K E A W A Y

Not the absence of action — the absence of the fight inside it. Which is why it cannot be commanded: the commanding is the fight.

Prepare the two things that can be prepared, the skill and the grip, and then decline to check whether it is working.

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