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Orion Quin  ·  A Series in Twelve Parts

The Everyday Mussar

Twelve essays on a Jewish ethical practice — one trait at a time, counted rather than judged, with the exceptions stated before the rule.


A living practice  ·  Psychology  ·  ~1 hr 15 min in total

The question is not whether a person has the trait. Every person has every trait. The question is the amount.after the mussar tradition on middot

§What this is, and what it isn’t

A living practice, read from outside it

Mussar is not an old literature. It is a Jewish ethical practice taught now, in communities with their own teachers and their own arguments about how it should be done. I am outside the tradition and outside the religion it belongs to. Nothing here is instruction in it; it is one reader’s working use of a literature, and the closing essay sets out what that reading leaves out.

The material is older than the movement. Bahya ibn Paquda wrote in eleventh-century Muslim Spain; Moshe Chaim Luzzatto in 1740; Menachem Mendel Lefin’s manual of 1808 supplied the working method — and appears to have taken its structure from Benjamin Franklin’s chart of thirteen virtues, which the first essay says rather than hides. What Israel Salanter founded in nineteenth-century Lithuania was a movement to make the reading into a daily discipline.

Three of these traits are the ones most reliably used against the people they are taught to: patience, gratitude and joy. In each case the tell is the same — the instruction travels down the status gradient and never up it. That test is not in the sources; it runs through these essays because the alternative is a collection that hands an institution three useful instruments.

The sixth essay, on restraint in speech, puts the exceptions before the trait, because taught in the usual order it has a documented history of being used to keep people quiet about harm. The exceptions are the tradition’s own; losing them is a failure of transmission rather than of doctrine.

Every essay carries a section headed The case against, in the body rather than at the end. Two of them — on the nightly accounting, and on order — contain cautions that matter more than the practice they accompany.

A standing invitation. This is an outsider’s reading, and the place it is most likely to go wrong is where a useful adaptation starts to sound like a description of Mussar itself — particularly in the essays on speech, on trust, and in the closing accounting. If you practise or study this tradition and you find that happening, I would rather hear it than not: corrections of that kind have already improved this collection more than any amount of polishing. Write to me via the contact page at orionquin.com.

01
CHESHBON HANEFESH · ACCOUNTING OF THE SOUL
The Accounting You Do at Night
Twelve essays on a Jewish ethical practice — beginning with its method, which is a spreadsheet, and with what that method did to some of the people who used it.
Method · Self-observation  ·  ~7 min read
02
MIDDOT · MEASURES
One Trait at a Time
On working a single thing while naming the four you are setting aside — and on what trait language does to a person.
Focus · Traits  ·  ~6 min read
03
ZERIZUT · ALACRITY
Starting Before You Feel Like It
On promptness, which the tradition places early because almost nothing else can be worked until this is working.
Starting · Delay  ·  ~6 min read
04
SEDER · ORDER
Everything Has a Place
On set place and set time — and on the clinical objection, which matters more here than in most essays.
Order · Attention  ·  ~6 min read
05
SAVLANUT · PATIENCE
Bearing It Without Being Crushed
On patience as carrying rather than waiting — and on the two questions that have to be answered before any of it.
Endurance · Load  ·  ~6 min read
06
SHTIKA · SILENCE
The Thing You Don’t Say
This essay puts the exceptions before the trait, because taught in the other order it has been used to keep people quiet about harm.
Speech · Restraint  ·  ~7 min read
07
ANAVAH · HUMILITY
No More Than Your Place
On the second clause, which almost nobody applies — and on who this trait tends to get taught to.
Standing · Space  ·  ~6 min read
08
EMET · TRUTH
The Truth You Tell Yourself
On the generous rounding, which is neither lying nor accuracy — and on whether the self-knowledge this trait assumes is available at all.
Honesty · Self-report  ·  ~6 min read
09
BITACHON · TRUST
Trust Without a Guarantee
This essay says first what it is leaving behind. What survives the subtraction is smaller than the original and still worth having.
Uncertainty · Limits  ·  ~6 min read
10
HAKARAT HATOV · RECOGNIZING THE GOOD
Recognizing the Good
On a verb rather than a noun — and on what the word does when an institution gets hold of it.
Attention · Gratitude  ·  ~6 min read
11
KAVOD HABRIYOT · DIGNITY OF PERSONS
What Is Owed to the Other One
On the person who stops being addressed — and on why an honour vocabulary is a risky thing to hand to an institution.
Dignity · Attention  ·  ~6 min read
12
SIMCHA · JOY
Joy Is a Practice
The closing essay: on a claim that inverts depending on who is making it, and on what an outsider reading of a living tradition leaves out.
Closing  ·  ~7 min read